In laws are driving me crazy!?

what does your fiancee say about all this? is he standing up for you? or does he just kind of shrug it off? because if you're going to be his wife, he should be defending you against anyone and everyone-even his family. if he isn't, i'd seriously reconsider marrying him. also, even if you do marry your fiancee, his family isn't your family if they don't accept you. you are under no obligation to ociate with people who disrespect and belittle you. there's no reason your finacee can't go visit his family from time to time without you. and i don't blame you for not wanting any future children to be alone with these wretched people. it would probably be good to sit down with the fiancee and talk about all this stuff and work on ways to deal with it together.