I m a 24yr old married female. my marriage is love marriage(2yrs) against my parents will. now m nt satisfied?

the problem lies with my inlaws..m educated lady m an engineer and very beautiful and smart but did a very big mistake by getting married in such a narrow minded orthodox family.....i m from metro and now i stay in a small city.m husband is also engineer but he looks aftr his fathers business.a gud bussiness, hes the only son.my mil hates me.my hubby and me always have bicker on small issues. we have zero life everything is lost in my life.......i have no hope to live.....even m financially nt strong his parents dnt like if he gives me money i dnt even received anniversary gift from him......otherwise they are from a rich family my 2 sister in laws spend money like anything .....plzhelp wat to do?????????????